Paule

Dear beloveds, I will address this topic the best way:  What can be said about committing your life to someone, and getting formally together with somebody? In my personal opinion, The first fact that should be a priority is to have strong built base and structure of that relationship by having oneness.  When there is oneness you cognize that integrity, honesty in the communication is essential when deciding to unite or not. The integrity you can have with others is the integrity you have with yourself. when there is love and oneness there is by fact empathy, Always when there is love also empathy is present. I can understand that in life any stuff can happen, and people get together by diverse other interests such as only looks, lust or money, or certain conveniences etc... and by those same reasons they breakup, but what I mean to express here is that in order to succeed in a relationship oneness=love=empathy  is crucial. When you feel lust and you get together  just because of lust,